While writing The Providence Journal feature "A Remarkable Life" and the biography An Uncommon Man about Nuala and Claiborne Pell -- and on numerous other occasions -- I spent many hours with this wonderful woman who died on April 13. Fittingly, I wrote Nuala's obituary.
This was one of many memorable occasions with Nuala, and it became the epilogue of my biography. I will have more memories to share soon.
The
sun was breaking through an overcast sky as Nuala Pell left her home and rode
down Bellevue Avenue past her father-in-law’s former estate, now the
headquarters of the Preservation Society of Newport County. A writer was at the
wheel.
It
was Veterans Day, 2009.
The
car passed the Tennis Hall of Fame and First Beach and continued into
Middletown. St. George’s School came into view as the car traveled past Hanging
Rock, a massive outcropping of ledge in the woods below the school that has
been a favorite destination for generations of young people. A memory brought a
smile to Nuala’s face. In the summer of 1944, not long after they met,
Claiborne took her on a date here, Nuala said.
The
writer suggested that perhaps the 25-year-old suitor was proud to point out his
alma mater.
Nuala
laughed.
“He
wasn’t talking about St. George’s,” she said.
North
on Indian Avenue the car continued, past Eastover, where Claiborne spent part
of his childhood with his mother and stepfather. The car turned off at Saint
Columba’s Chapel, a stone church built during the 19th Century in
old-English style.
Ten months before, Pell’s final worldly journey had ended
here. His family had gathered around a freshly opened grave beneath a grand old
copper beech tree as Episcopal Bishop Geralyn Wolf led them in the Lord’s
Prayer. Coast Guardsmen fired a 21-gun salute, a bugler played taps, and the
American flag that draped the mahogany casket was folded and handed to Vice
Admiral Clifford I. Pearson, Coast Guard chief of staff, whose father served
with Pell on a cutter. Pearson gave the flag to Nuala. The casket was lowered,
and Nuala and her family threw spades of earth on it. All was silent for a
moment, and then the Pells disappeared inside black funeral-home limousines.
Snow
had frosted the cemetery grounds on that cold January day -- but now it was
decorated with fallen leaves, a blanket of yellow and gold that extended up the
chapel steps. Nuala pointed out her husband’s tombstone, recently erected. It
was a simple gray tablet, like the stones marking the graves of Bertie and
Julie, who lie next to their father. Inscribed on it were Pell’s name; dates of
birth, death and Senate service; and the epitaph he had written.
“Statesman,
legislator, champion of education and the arts,” it read.
Nuala
walked through the churchyard, pointing out other graves she knew. There was
Ollie O’Donnell, her father, who had found little time for Nuala and her
brother after his divorce from their mother. There side-by-side were Claiborne’s
mother, Matilda, who died in 1972 at Pelican Ledge, and her husband, the
mysterious Commander Koehler, whose death in 1941 had left Matilda in financial
difficulty. There in front of the Koehlers was their only child together: Hugo
Gladstone Koehler, who died in 1990 at the age of 60. His premature death had
moved stepbrother Pell to tears, one of the few times in his life that he
cried.
On
the drive home, Nuala talked of Claiborne’s obsession with death.
“He
couldn’t accept the fact that there wasn’t anything,” she said. “I told him it
was what you believed it to be -- but you had to believe strongly that it would
happen. But if you were doubtful, there was nothing.”
Claiborne, she said, went
to his grave without ever telling her if he had reached any conclusion in his
quest. No one would ever know if this man who had worked so long for peace had
found it for himself.
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| One of the last public appearances of Nuala: at the Jan. 28, 2014, announcement that grandson Clay, here with wife Michelle Kwan, is running for governor of Rhode Island. |
